idealism vs realism

lately, i've found that my typical "eternal idealist" outlook has been flavored with plenty of realism.  this viewpoint typically relates to people.  i don't judge, i just consider myself very observational.  as an idealist, i think that people are honest, fair and forgiving.  i believe in the best possible outcome to any situation.  however, i usually get let down, so i've decided to try this realism thing for awhile.

wish me luck.

listen to:  Screaming Infidelities by Dashboard Confessionals...."and when did your eyes begin to look fake?"