"love is composed of a single soul
inhabiting two bodies" ~ aristotle
aristotle said it best when describing the kind of love that i witnessed the union of last week. in a world where loneliness is feared but separation is common, how do we know what is the "real deal"?
the wedding festivities were held in playa del carmen, mexico. the entire week was filled with so much joy and laughter that i had to pinch myself. after losing my step-father three weeks ago, i didn't think it was possible to be this happy again. i am the type of person who is overjoyed when my friends and family are happy. nothing makes me happier than those i love being satisfied with life beyond description. this week was especially wonderful for me because two people i witness the union of two people i love very much: my cousin and one of my best friends.
there were a few weak moments. my cousin's immediate family (and my secondary family) is not the most compliant of this marriage. it is devastating to me to see someone i love so much hurt, and also frustrating that my family would not stick by each other no matter what. at the same time, it was magical to see how this couple's love is able to not only overcome this adversity, but radiate happiness and pleasure for all around.
so, back to my question regarding the "real deal". my thoughts: everyone in attendance last week witnessed the "real deal". it is when their happiness is felt by everyone around them. it's when no matter what bad happens, being in each other's presence produces good. it's when each individual would do anything in the world to make the other happy. it's when they bring out the good in each other and everyone knows it. i've seen a side of my cousin that i've never seen before....the normally shy man is a wall-flower no more. his happiness is apparent for all to see. and i've never seen a woman in love be so selfless in a relationship. she would do anything for her husband, because his happiness is everything to her.
the week was filled with new friendships and crazy good times that will never be forgotten. i would like to congratulate my cousin and new cousin-in-law and wish them all they could ever dream of. thank you for inspiring cynical singles like myself and making us believers again.
listen to: 18th Floor Balcony by Blue October..."and I raised my hand as if to show you that I was yours"
Yay for a blog post from my favorite J-thang! Lovely post by the way. Your ability to truly rejoice and hurt with people you care about is something that sets you a part as a friend and person. I'll miss you while you're traveling:( Let us know when you have your dance show and we will SO be there cheering for you!!!!
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